What is it about empty space that we have to fill it? I’m in the battle of my life and that’s the question that keeps coming up for me.
Okay, battle of my life might be a little dramatic but here’s the scenario. For any place that I declutter and clean in my house, it appears to be an invitation to my kids to fill up again. I find this incredibly challenging.
I’ve been inspired to declutter by the amazing Boomer EcoCrusader, Michelle, who has great suggestions about simplifying our lives. But in the podcast conversations that we’ve had with her, we’ve never talked about the struggle to keep things clutter free.
To be fair, it’s not just my kids. I have a nook in the kitchen where I leave my purse. When it’s cleaned out, I find it to be a very convenient place to stash things when I don’t do the work to find a permanent home for them.
But other people’s stuff is more annoying, right?
So I took a break from decluttering to look up the origin behind the idiom, “Nature abhors a vacuum.” Wikipedia (and other sources) credits it to Aristotle. His hypothesis was that when there is a void, the denser surrounding material would move to fill it.
Surprisingly, this little tidbit helped me reframe my struggle. It implies that if I declutter, the sheer number of “things” we have should go down. If nature abhors a vacuum and works to spread things out – at least there will be fewer things to spread.
It also made me think of creativity and writing. When I’m overloaded or life feels hectic, I’ve learned to write things down. To create a list for order or a post to make sense of struggle and it often brings perspective.
Like with this post. I’m already feeling better about the never-ending work to bring order to chaos of all varieties.
(featured photo from Pexels)
There are people who make a career out of decluttering. Then there are the hoarders, who make life out of keeping everything, “just in case.” Both projects are never-ending. Such is life. You are doing better than most of us, Wynne.
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Such is life — a wonderful dose of perspective. Thank you, Dr. Stein!
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Lists…helping us make sense…oh my. Yes! Doesn’t clear the clutter or lessen the tasks, but I like a good game plan – even when I don’t follow it. 😉🥰😉
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Even when I don’t follow it. That’s so true!! Thank you, dear Vicki!!
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i think the ‘water seeks its own level’ principle works here. i so get what you’re saying and glad you are writing lists and organizing to better manage the natural chaos of life. it helps me as well.
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water seeks its own level — that is spot on, Beth! Yes!
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I think clutter bothers me because it takes away the option of how that space can be used. I’m really into everything having its place and I don’t like when things are not where they’re supposed to be and end up cluttering some other space instead. This applies to counter space, time, brain space, and everything else … options just make me feel good and lack of them does not
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Ooh, I love how you include counter space, time, brain space — right!! Your comment about it taking away the option of how it can be used is right on. Thank you for the great comment, Todd!
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Clutter is a never ending battle. Good luck in your quest for feng shui. 🙂
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Never-ending – exactly, Nancy!! Thank you for the good wishes in the fight!
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Clutter is a daily battle for sure 🙄
Good luck Wynne 🤗
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A daily battle – yes! Thanks, Maggie!
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My pleasure Wynne.
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I have a love hate relationship with clutter. Usually, I ignore it, but when I’m feeling down It seems to take over and suffocate me.
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What a good point, VJ. Now that you mention it, I have a shifting relationship as well. It’s only when I’m working on it that it drives me crazy.
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Decluttering is a major goal of mine. I’ve emptied out a significant portion of things in one room, but I admit it doesn’t look any less cluttered. Your post makes sense and is somewhat reassuring–but I still could get rid of more STUFF.
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Oh, I’m so glad I’m not alone in this, Belinda! Same for me – I have a lot more stuff to get rid of!
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Clutter of any kind is a persistent challenge, for sure. We clutter our minds and lives with stuff that impedes creativity and healthy living. The battle to keep both our homes and minds clear of clutter is indeed a daily challenge.
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“We clutter our minds and lives with stuff that impedes creativity and healthy living.” – you nailed it, Edward! Yes, a daily challenge!
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Baby steps—we’ll get there.
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Great post, Wynne!
I laughed at this “But other people’s stuff is more annoying, right?”
But of course. Ha.
Now kids they are the storm of the vacuum that move everything everywhere, more like a blower.. I KNOW. 🤣
It’s a monthly affair, I’m seeing as I’m going from drawer to drawer and back the to first.
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Oh, I’m laughing about the blower, Cindy! YES!! You nailed the analogy. Holy smokes!
I so resonate with going from drawer to drawer — and back! Yep!! Thanks, my friend!
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oh good we need some laughs from the crazy clean up attempts. I’m actually making headway but that’s only because I literally dumped most of the house and the grands aren’t here everyday … TG! The animals destroy enough!
It’s like my house.. done with the back remodel and now the other side news cabinet repair, paint, new reefer.. NVM. 🤣
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It feels so good to declutter, but the space does fill up. I’ve found that I can focus more on my work if I’m in a spare space. I’m going through a stressful, busy time too. I started on taxes yesterday. My husband went from a W-2 to a LLC and it’s tons more complicated. Then I’ve been doing media contacts for an upcoming fundraiser. It’s HOA newsletter time — and I have hours of reading and quizzes for my photography class.
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Oh, this so makes sense to me “I’ve found that I can focus more on my work if I’m in a spare space. ” Yes! it’s so much easier to find thing. You do have a lot going on!
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I get distracted by clutter. Yes, I’ve got a busy few weeks ahead and I once in awhile want to panic. But I’m just plodding ahead getting done as much as I can.
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Thanks for the shout out, Wynne!
Looking around my house at the moment, I see lots of clutter. It’s an ongoing struggle. It is more difficult with kids, though. I only had the headspace to get really serious about decluttering after they were grown up.
And yes to lists! I always have lists on the go. Just the act of writing something on a list gets it out of my brain and frees up space to focus on other things.
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The headspace — I think you’ve named a critical component. Right! Thanks for the inspiration!
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Decluttering is so therapeutic whether in the literal or metaphorical sense, Wynne. i get the sense your battle right now is a bit of both! Aristotle’s quote about nature and vacuums ring true; it’s such human nature to naturally fill a void with something, whether a nook in our home or a space in our calendars. Sometimes, just letting it be is the way to go.
Hope the rest of your week is clutter and vacuum free!
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or space in our calendars…yes!! You are right – letting it be is sometimes the way to go for sure! Thanks for the good wishes – wishing the same for you! Bdays add clutter!! 😉
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Well, you are not alone, I have been on a mission to find a place for everything and put everything in its place. I look at this task as showering our home with love and joy! 💖💖💖
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“I look at this task as showering our home with love and joy!” That’s so good, Mary! I love your perspective. Thank you, my friend!
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I used to be almost asleep when I’d think of something I’d want to remember the next day. The problem is by the next day, sometimes that thought has gone into the ether. Now I get up and write it down. Letting go of the thought temporarily helps me sleep better too.
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It’s like magic, isn’t it? The move from the headspace to the paper is more than symbolic. Great comment. Thanks, Pete!
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Clutter and kids. A never-ending battle. Of course, my kids would be pointing right back at me. Ha ha! Obviously I’m no help to you!!!!! 🤣🤣🤣😎😎
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The finger point is real! Yes, a never-ending battle. Stuff spread EVERYWHERE! 🙂 Thanks for hearing me, my friend!
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Oh, I like that idiom! Baskets, shelving, and drawers work for me, but then I have the problem of ‘out of sight, out of mind’. sigh!
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Oh Jennie – I have that problem too!
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Misery loves company! 😅
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When it comes to decluttering, I often feel like Sisyphus. One step forward, two steps back, trying to avoid being flattened like a pancake.
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Oh yes – flattened like a pancake. Good way to put that pose on the floor I find myself in when it feels so futile!
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