Episode 20: The Art of the Interview with Dr. Gerald Stein

I’ve come to think of having a comment from Dr. Gerald Stein as a badge of honor for a post. His comments, generously bestowed, reflect a gentle sense of humor, and a great sense of perspective and wisdom.

Which is a good description for his blog posts as well. His writing often draws from his esteemed career as a psychologist, in addition to his interests, such as lover of the arts, exercising his studious mind, and in my observation, being an insightful human. As an example, one of my favorite posts, How to Become Your Own Best Friend, reflects all of the above and more.

So Vicki and I were thrilled when psychologist, historian, teacher and blogger, Dr. Gerald Stein, agreed to come on the podcast to talk with us. It was such a delight and honor to be able to converse with him about his stories and experience.

In this episode, we talk about the art of the interview. Dr. Stein draws on his extensive experience as a therapist but also as an expert witness to explain how you need to be aware of what’s been said, present to listen, and help guide the conversation when asking and answering questions. He tells us how he’s prepared for interviews and what he’s done to make people comfortable. Dr. Stein wisely coaches us to save the hardest questions for last in the case they end the session.

We talk about interviewing family members and what a powerful experience that can be to provide answers and connection. And in the end of our time together, Dr. Stein gives us some perspective about life with a story about something extra.

This is a great episode filled with wonderful stories from the wise, experienced, funny, and insightful, Dr. Stein. We know you’ll love it.

Episode 132: South Side Memories with Gloria Golec Sharing the Heart of the Matter

In this episode, hosts Wynne Leon and Vicki Atkinson engage with author Gloria Golec about her memoir, South Side Memories. The conversation explores themes of family, immigrant experiences, and the power of storytelling. Gloria shares insights on how her Polish heritage and family dynamics shaped her identity and writing journey. The discussion emphasizes the importance of preserving personal narratives, the emotional connections that come from sharing stories, and provides the inspiration for writing our own stories.TakeawaysThe book is a reflection of the American dream and immigrant experiences.Storytelling helps maintain connections to roots and loved ones.Writing can be a therapeutic process for personal growth.Family dynamics, especially gender roles, play a significant role in shaping identity.Cherished memories can provide clarity and understanding of past relationships.Cultural heritage is often intertwined with food traditions and family gatherings.Teaching experiences can influence one's writing and storytelling approach.Writing a memoir can be an emotional journey that brings past relationships closer.Encouragement to start writing by focusing on one story at a time.Sharing stories can inspire others and create a sense of community.Links for this episode:⁠How To Share Snapshots of the American Dream transcript⁠⁠Gloria Golec's profile on Eckhartz Press⁠South Side Memories on ⁠Eckhartz Press⁠From the hosts:Vicki’s book about resilience and love: ⁠Surviving Sue⁠; Blog: ⁠https://victoriaponders.com/⁠My book about my beloved father: ⁠Finding My Father’s Faith⁠
  1. Episode 132: South Side Memories with Gloria Golec
  2. Episode 131: Attacking the Dragon with Marc Ross
  3. Episode 130: Take Me Back to Chicago with Doug E. Jones
  4. Episode 129: Wish I Was Here with Ilsa Rey
  5. Episode 128: This is Your Body on Trauma with Meg Bowman

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Dr. Stein’s Blog: ⁠Dr. Gerald Stein | Blogging About Psychotherapy from Chicago (wordpress.com)


20 thoughts on “Episode 20: The Art of the Interview with Dr. Gerald Stein

  1. Lovely podcast with Dr. Stein! He is just as interesting and thoughtful in his responses as one would expect. I loved his little tidbit early on when he was talking about being deposed and the fear that came over him then that realization that hey “I’m the psychologist here” and also clearly the expert so why be fearful 🙂

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    1. Oh, I love that you picked up on that – yes, wasn’t that interesting? Reminds me that the game of lawyering is more about how to play then actually how to find the truth! Thanks for listening, Deb!

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  2. Interviewing is definitely an art and about creating a safe space. Love the insight on saving the hardest questions for the later parts of the conversation!

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