I recently heard that there’s been a shake-up in the world of Happiness research. On a Ten Percent Happier podcast on which Dan Harris was interviewing happiness researcher, Elizabeth Dunn, she said she went back to review the research done on the five things that have traditionally been recommended for improving happiness:
Practicing gratitude
Social connection
Meditation and mindfulness
Exercise
Spending time with nature
When she evaluated the research that backed up claims that those five things improved happiness according to the research standards of today, only two passed: practicing gratitude and social connection.
I know – I’d go to the mat saying that meditation, exercise, and spending time with nature increase happiness. To be clear, she’s not saying that they don’t, but that the research that was often cited to prove that they do, doesn’t pass muster.
But the research that says that practicing gratitude increases happiness does. Practicing gratitude makes me think of Brené Brown. I heard her liken practicing gratitude to doing yoga. She joked that having yoga pants in her closet doesn’t make her a yogi, you have to actually do it to get the benefit. The same goes for gratitude – you have to practice it to make it work for you.
My gratitude practice is inconsistent. My kids and I made beautiful gratitude boxes to slip little slips of gratefuls in and it sits on the shelf. But I’m reminded by this research and Brené’s quip, that there’s a lot of benefit to actually doing it.
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I live Ty s idea of the gratitude box
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It’s perfect for your kiddos gratitude drawings!
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yes!
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Practice makes perfect for sure. If we have the tools, skills and opportunities but don’t seize them, then nothing happens. That’s a good point about practicing gratitude as well.
The happiness research is interesting. I can see how gratitude and social connection passes the muster and scrunity. Like you, I do feel that time in nature makes a huge difference. Will be curious to see why it didn’t have sufficient evidence. Maybe I’ll go for a walk to ponder that. 😆
Enjoy the short Thanksgiving week ahead with the family!
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Ha, ha, ha – a walk would definitely make it all better. At least that’s what I think! Thanks, Ab! Happy Monday! XOXO!
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This is very interesting. I’m going to overthink this a bit … Did you see that Gretchen Reuben is revamping her happiness project for 2024?
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Oh, how interesting, LA. I hadn’t seen that yet. I’m off to go check out what news I can find. Thank you!
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Research, if done well, produces truth that must be understood within the limits of how experiments are designed. That “truth” must also be understood in terms of the impossibility of eliminating the chance of error in any single study. We, the reading public who, for the most part are unable to evaluate the design and statistical analysis of the research, are prone to finding certainty where it doesn’t exist. Science moves ahead, but in most cases, that movement takes time, repetition, and a tolerance for false starts.
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I love your perspective on our finding certainty where it doesn’t exist. Right! Thanks for the great info.
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When I’m in nature, I can’t help feeling thankful. And exercise triggers the release of endorphins, but it’s definitely more fun in connection with others. I’m curious how endorphins factor into the study.
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I love your take on exercise and nature, Crystal. Same for me. Funny thing was the researcher said that it’s hard to measure exercise (I think). I guess we’ll see if they redo those studies!
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That’s so interesting that the research has been revisited and doesn’t necessarily hold water. I hope they repeat the studies because I suspect the full list would be valid. Like you, I’m also a bit inconsistent, but I think even and imperfect effort is better than the alternative. 😉
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I suspect the full list would hold water too, Erin. You’re right – imperfect effort is better!
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So many things in life are about practice, practice, practice. What good are the tools in the toolbox if they just gather dust? Thanks for the research update, Wynne. Really interesting! 🥰
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Oh yes – the dust gathering. Right! Gotta use our tools! 🙂
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With my growing interested in science comms (and the like), I’m very heartened to hear. of such a re-evaluation! And I’m grateful, too, for the nudge to get back to my gratitude lists; they fell by the wayside a few weeks back, and … I think, in light of this post, I can feel the difference. Back to it! 🙂
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Back to it! Me too, Deb. I find myself often writing what I need to hear… 🙂
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I practice gratitude daily, but don’t write anything down. I like to be outside in nature every day, but not necessarily hiking through it. I’ve slacked off on meditation, so there could be improvement there. And exercise + social connection are areas that just seem to happen [or not] for me. I don’t think about them much. 🤔
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That seems like a good use of the toolbox, Ally. Pick what works best for you and for the time of life.
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You say your gratitude practice is inconsistent. I hear you. I have the same issue, but maybe it’s how you’re viewing the practice. When I read that line, my first thought was your habit of posting photos on Saturdays. To me, that epitomizes the habit of gratitude. Just a thought.
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That’s so true Brian. Wynne, I think you’re more disciplined about gratitude than you realize!
I try to journal highlights every day. Most of them are things I’m grateful for but some are just thoughts and feelings about things going on in my life. For me, gratitude is about being satisfied with what you have and not always craving more—even if you don’t take the time to write it down.
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I love your take that gratitude about being satisfied with what we have. Beautiful, Michelle!
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Oh Brian and Michelle – I love this slack that you’ve given me. But you’re right – often I go through the pictures and think – wow, I forgot we did that. How fun!
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I’m with you on not being consistent with my gratitude practice. Thank you for the reminder. After reading “Flourish” by Martin Seligman has a “three blessings” exercise that I start and then forget about. He said it’s more effective than meds for well being. You right three things you’re grateful for each day and then write why they happened.
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Oh, three things and why – that’s powerful, Elizabeth! Seems like you might find some patterns along with the gratitude! I’m grateful for this comment!
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I need to get back to it and make it a habit!
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In its simplest form gratitude means saying thank you. Show appreciation to someone in your life, make them happy and their happiness is reflected back onto you. I don’t honestly know that I spend time reflecting on what or how or when I show my gratitude. I just do it because it is what I was taught to do as a human being… I am a pretty happy person generally so maybe that means I’m doing something right? 🙂
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I think you’re doing a lot right, Deb! 🙂 ❤
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Happiness is often what you experience when you make other people happy. Thanks for sharing the interesting study. 🙂
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I like that definition. Thanks, Nancy!
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In my opinion, happiness varies so much from person to person that it would be nearly impossible to quantify. It’s very subjective and individual. For example, many find great joy in yoga whereas I absolutely hate it. I feel stressed, ungainly and bored. Meditation doesn’t work for me either unless that includes thinking about things while I walk. Just sitting and pondering life doesn’t work for me.
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Oh, Margaret, you’ve hit on something so interesting. The researcher made mention of some of the same issues. She said measuring happiness was fairly easy to measure – it’s the balance of the satisfied thoughts/affect versus the non. But she said the same thing that you did about exercise and meditation – too many variants and variables! Thanks for the great comment!
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When I fall off of the happy train, it is gratitude that lifts me up and puts me back on track—hands down. But sometimes I forget to remember. Meditation takes mindfulness—all gratitude takes is remembering. Thanks for the reminder Wynne!
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I love this comment, Julia! Falling off the happy train – that’s so good! Yep, we just have to remember which is sometimes surprisingly hard! 🙂 Grateful for you! ❤ ❤ ❤
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I think the latest research is right. These two happiness factors are spot on since Covid.
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Such an interesting mention of Covid, Jennie. Yes! Thanks for weighing in!
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My pleasure, Wynne. It does make sense.
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Since happiness has many different definitions I always find these research studies interesting. And your gratitude boxes – how wonderful are those!
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You’re right, Mary. Those research studies are interesting! I’m grateful for you!
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It’s crazy how many people need reasons to be happy while there others are just happy to be part of this world.. being a happy human being is very important, but it should be natural. Probably we need less things in life.. idk 🤷♂️ 😀
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Oh, what an insightful comment, Alex. Yes, perhaps we need less in life. Thanks for reading and commenting!
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Wynne! Thank you for sharing, we need more positive content
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