Episode 28: How Self-Care Can Make Us Better Humans with Vicki Atkinson

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We all have different ideas of what a self-care looks like for ourselves – ideas that match our personality and phase of life. But for all the variation in style, there is a central question of how to make self-care stick.

So in this episode, Vicki and I talk about the little hacks that help us to really fill our cups – things like knowing how we self-sabotage or trying not to go whole hog into self-care but instead picking and choosing what’s really helpful.

I talk about seeing the bigger picture and how that helps to orient me on what truly is important. It’s quite probable that I won’t ever get to the end of my to-do list, or at least not until I retire and the kids have moved away, so it’s my way of finding some peace in knowing what is going to make a difference.

Vicki and I talk about the love of naps and how they help to reset our system and create a break between one thing and the next.

And in the midst of summer vacations and home improvement projects, we commiserate about all the fun threatens to throw us off kilter. I talk about how meditation is my tool to irrigate the irritation and Vicki reveals how she spends energy to get energy.

Vicki answers how disruption helps to remind her that she can learn and adapt. We tie our need for adapt to things at a personal level, like having to change plans because of the AQI (air quality index), and extend the conversation from personal self-care to global self-care.

Which is a great way to segue to why this is a full-circle episode because we tie how taking caring of ourselves helps us to be more thoughtful people in this world. I know you’ll love it.

Episode 134: Perfect with P.J. Gudka – Sharing the Heart of the Matter

Looking for a compelling author interview and a great newpsychological thriller to add to your reading list? In this episode of Sharing the Heart of the Matter, P. J. Gudka joins us to discuss her debut novel, Perfect, a psychological domestic thriller centered on family secrets, generationaltrauma, perfectionism, and moral complexity. We talk about her transition from poetry to fiction, how she built layered and relatable characters, and why empathy matters so much in storytelling. P. J. also shares insights into the writing process, self-publishing, the power of the writing community, and what she’s working on next.If you enjoy book podcasts, author interviews, psychological thrillers, and conversations about creativity, this episode isone you won’t want to miss.Links for this episode:Transcript: Episode 134: Perfect with P.J. Gudka transcriptPurchase "Perfect": Amazon.com: Perfect eBook : Gudka, P. J. : Kindle StorePooja's Blog: Lifesfinewhine – The Life & Ramblings Of A ZillennialFrom the hosts:Vicki’s new book – a ghost story, Slivers. Her book about resilience and love: Surviving Sue; Blog: https://victoriaponders.com/Wynne's blog: Surprised by Joy and podcast: The Life of Try
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18 thoughts on “Episode 28: How Self-Care Can Make Us Better Humans with Vicki Atkinson”

  1. So…here’s a Friday morning conundrum. Is it okay to “Like” our own podcast…and then daringly offer a comment about as much? I’m doing it anyhow…cheers and love to you, Wynne. If only everyone who wanted to do so had the opportunity to chat (and giggle) with you. One woman ‘joy squad’ = Wynne. xo! 🥰

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    1. Ha, ha, ha – you are so fun, Vicki!! I take it as a very good sign that we’re still giggling a week after recording. Always so much fun to talk with you. You are such a great human and encourager, my dear friend!!! ❤ ❤ ❤

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  4. Enjoyed the segue towards the end about self-care in regards to being human on a struggling planet and our need to have awareness of the human/earth connection from a well-being standpoint. Thank you ladies!

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  6. This one made me chuckle: “It’s quite probable that I won’t ever get to the end of my to-do list, or at least not until I retire and the kids have moved away.” My list grows every day, even in retirement. Maybe it’s that I move slower and don’t care quite as much? Or maybe those time-thieving, delicious little naps that push things farther down the list? Whatever it is, naps rule and they’re number one on my list. Period!

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